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Marry a Miser. Hell No!

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Marry a Miser. Hell No!

We live in a world where the importance of having money cannot be overemphasized. Literally, without money, we can't live. Sometimes, I pick an offence with the creation of money in the fast place.

Food, clothing and shelter are the three basic needs of a man which cannot be acquired without money. Fine, we know the saying that 'money isn't everything', but my dear, money makes the world go round! The famous quote is quite ironic considering some factors. You need money to buy food, you need money to pay bills. You need money to buy basic things in order to live well. In summary, money is paramount to one's well-being because the more your financial resources, the better your life and comfort that follows.

Everyone craves for comfort. It's a normal feeling. However, the cravings for comfort is usually higher with the female gender. Do not ask me why! I would say that, they are just designed as such. I hope I do not sound mean. An average lady wants to have a wardrobe filled with good dresses, use good phones, drive fast cars, live in a big house and date, (sorry, my mistake) marry rich men. Don't call them names, if I was a lady, I would love to end up with a man that is okay. Who wouldn’t? Please tell me. Who really wants to end up with a guy that can not even take care of himself? No to talk of…

And please STOP! those, all that glitters isn't gold, lines. Or the popular chronology of the king, “vanity upon vanity, all is vanity”. Tell me, how did the king know that all is vanity? After he enjoyed it all. Picture in your mind, a man who had access to a thousand lovely women babes!, telling me now, that all is vanity? Anyways, that’s not for today’s consumption…

Back to where we turned off, as regards marriage, we say, love is the greatest. Please wake up sis, love fades, love goes sour! Love needs a lubricator, an ointment or grace, it is called CASH FLOW, that’s money bro. When a guy begins to sing love from morning to night, dusk to dawn. Soon, he sounds like a broken record. Hey, have you been told that love gives? Love gives what? Please humbly ask every married person the cause of troubles in the home. Two things would stand out of all: Money and Sex. I tell you, even sex as an issue finds its root in lack of money!

So permit me to say, Money is the root of every troubled home. No one wants that really. And yes, we may need to strike a balance on the source of money. This age is mean. So mean. These guys do anything for money! So, if you are caught in that web, I wish you luck…

Hello, don't get me twisted. I'm not saying money is the only thing you need in marriages, but it is key to a lasting home. Be that as it may, we all know that all fingers are not equal as there will always be the poor amongst us (I detest that saying), but would you want to be the poor or end up with the poor?

As a lady, it is important to know the difference between a poor man and a miser. A not so rich guy can be very generous while a super-rich guy could be a miser. A miser is someone who is always very reluctant to spend even if it to acquire basic things. The funny part is that, it is not that he cannot afford to buy them, but he would rather not spend at all or spend very little all in the name of keeping money. If you ask me, I would say it’s a curse! How would someone have so much but prefer to spend no kobo (sometimes for himself). Won ti s’epe fun ni (he has been cursed). I perceive these people as psychologically demented individuals. These set of men pose a great threat to matrimonial homes. If you spot anyone, my sister run! Run as fast and far your legs can take you and never look back. Also, do not have this illusion that he will change. Experience shows that no man (or lady) has the capacity to change another. Ask the change mantra, if I am wrong!

So, I would say, get together with someone who could take care of himself, and of course you. More importantly, someone who cares to give all. For really, what greater love hath a man, that he lays down his life for another…


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Posted By:D-law

nice and informative.

2019-02-21 09:05:07

Posted By:D-law

nice and informative.

2019-02-21 09:05:07

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